One of the reasons why people get so emotional when they are hurt and may have a hard time moving on is because the memories still lingers. Memories are the only things that anyone cannot erase - - when everything else does.
But you need to accept that there are really things in life that you can't hold on forever no matter how much you fight for it. Sometimes destiny never gives us happy endings, it becomes more playful and risky when you are so much in love.
When you meet someone who will eventually turn out to be the one you love, you will generally think that destiny made your paths to cross, but what if -- WHAT IF making your paths cross is just a part of the game that destiny creates? Eventually making you realize that the person you've loved wasn't really meant to stay but only destined to make you FEEL LOVE AND LEAVE YOU WHEN YOU HAVE ALREADY FALLEN.
It is not easy to state reasons when you decide to leave your love - - some might think that it is just an excuse, some might actually believe, some will blame you, some might be mad at you. But, don't mind them - - what they don't see is the fact that it hurts even more to hurt someone who doesn't deserve to be hurt - - especially when you can't actually state the reason why you have to leave.
You can never own something that was never yours, so let's stop gripping on things we EXPECT to last forever. NOTHING LASTS FOREVER. FOREVER IS A LIE. EVERYTHING IS TRANSITORY. LOVE IS NEVER CONSTANT. So while you have something in your hand, put in mind that it’s just borrowed so that someday when it's gone, it won’t take you eternity just to let it go.
When your feelings get stronger for someone, it’s always wise to stop for a while and give you heart - - a time to breathe. A time to use your mind to weigh things out based on REASON not on EMOTION because the saddest thing that can happen is when one falls in love while the other wants nothing more than friendship.
Love can sometimes be magic but magic can sometimes be an illusion. There are times when I wished that I was limited to certain emotions so that I will never experience pain, never feel betrayed or disappointed, and never get my fragile heart broken. But the same thing means that I'll never know how it feels to love and be loved in return - the thought of it kinda scares me - TO HAVE A HEART THAT'S BROKEN BUT NUMB OR A HEART THAT'S BROKEN BUT REAL?
Someday we'll all be looking back to those days we learned to love, get hurt, cry, and fight. Maybe when that time comes, we'll be laughing at our old dumb selves realizing how stupid we were to stand up for things we knew weren't really meant for us.
But I guess learning takes time and mistakes contribute to the holistic development of a person. Always remember you have free choice and you should never allow destiny to control your life if it makes you feel unhappy. In the end the final choice is yours.
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